So, I try to sort things out with the Slave after I find him a bit... full on. He sent me a text asking for another chance. Well, the exact phrase was "I don't have to wear the hood."
So, I called him while pottering around the flat, tidying.
Me: "Look, I just thought I'd say... well, what's wrong with normal sex? You know - just sex sex. Can we have that sometime, and go from there?"
Him: "Yeah. I guess."
Me: "I mean, I'll try and be a bit brutal. If that'd be-"
Him: "Sure. Great. I'll do lots of poppers while you pull on my tit clamps really hard."
Me: "Um. Okay. Look - I just think that we're after two different things here. But let's just see how it goes. And... are you okay?"
Him: "uh...huh...yeah... carry on... uh..."
Me: "It's just that you're sounding a bit-"
Him: "Yeah. I've just stuck my butt plug in. Now go on."